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Wednesday, March 30, 2011

Week 31: A Week of Adjustment

So long time, no type, huh? It's been a couple weeks since I've updated, but that's because my life has been pretty crazy as many of you know. In case you missed it, the last week I posted I told you guys about moving to Quincy, MA to take a job through The Salvation Army out there as the Program Assistant. Since then, I have actually moved to Quincy. Here's an update:

The weekend before I left for Quincy, my friends threw me a surprise good-bye party. It was wonderful! It was just so great to have some of my favorite people in the same room together. I really do have the most amazing friends.

The last couple weeks have been quite a blur between packing my car so full with my belongings that I thought the car would burst at any second and saying "see ya later" so my loved ones. As it got closer and closer to my big adventure east, I had so many emotions running through my mind that it was hard to feel a lot of one thing. Yes, I was excited, but also nervous, sad, happy, anxious, and so many other emotions. I will say that through all of the ups and downs, the uncertainties- God was constant and was my rock.

And then it was this past Thursday, almost a week ago, that my friend Roxanne and I headed to her family's house near Ohio to begin our journey. We stayed the night there at her family's house and then got up early Friday morning and made the 14.5 hour drive from there to Quincy. It was such a long ride, but totally made better by the company of Roxanne. We arrived to my new home at around 8:30 eastern time and were greeted immediately by my new bosses and a couple young adults who helped unload my car. Roxanne and I crashed that night since we were so tired.

The next day, about 10 of us young adults headed to Boston. It was so wonderful. I wish you could all meet my new friends here. They were so welcoming and made me feel so comfortable. I immediately knew that I was going to be loved and cared for over here. We had a lovely day. The picture above is one that was taken in Boston at a place called Fire and Ice where we had lunch. It was sooooo good. Sunday, Roxanne headed back home to Indiana. It was so great to have Roxanne here with me. The people here loved her, and she was such a big support to me in this transition. God is so good and orchestrated that so wonderfully. Roxanne, you are such a great friend, and I'm so grateful that we were with me my first weekend here.

Monday was my first day of work- jumped right in! Monday night was actually a murder mystery dinner with the college ministry which was a ton of fun. Check out pictures on Facebook! I love my job so far. I get to be creative and plan programs for youth. I know that it is going to be challenging, but I'm up for it. I'm getting to know people, getting plugged into programs, and feeling more at home every day. There are nights when it is really hard. I'm not used to living alone, which has been hard, but God is more than enough. He is teaching me that He is all I need which I knew, but I'm actually living it out now. O boy, God has so much in store for me here. I am excited to see how everything unfolds!

Basically, this week I am adjusting to this big change. I am taking a week to take it all in, process through it, and embrace the change that I know will change my life forever. It's pretty simple really, but very needed. So prayers are appreciated during this week of adjustment!

Friday, March 11, 2011

Week 30, Day 6

Today we have a guest speaker writing about Boston! AJ is a dear friend of mine from college. She is amazing, has a heart of gold, and has been such a huge source of love and encouragement in college and even still. She absolutely LOVES Boston, so I figure the chance that she will come and visit me is pretty big : ) yay! I asked her to write about Boston, so here is what she wrote! Enjoy:


call it fate, but the 80s band boston has a love song called amanda. i think it was a song written with the knowledge that miss amanda keene would one glorious day being living it big time in none other than boston!

hi, my names aj, and i LOVE boston (and amanda! how coincidental...).
i have been to boston many times. each time completely lovely.
all my dads family lives there, so we've made many a few trips there.
and over the years, i've experienced so many amazing things the city has to offer.

boston is a city full of history, culture, accents, and insane sports fans (of which, i am one).
as a GUEST BLOGGER this week *score!* i'll highlight a few of my favorite things about boston.

#1- the red sox & fenway park! america's most beloved ballpark is fenway. bostonians are insane sports fans. red sox nation. no matter where you're walking around town and how far out you are in the suburbs, you will see TONS of redsox hats/coats/stickers/etc. the redsox mind the town together. (you'll also see many patriots and celtics and bruins memorabilia.) without weighing this post down with exhibition of how crazy my affections are for the redsox, i'll move on to something else.

#2- the freedom trail. there is literally a line of two bricks for 2.5 miles around the city, allowing you to take your own personally guided tour of historical landmarks. you will be able to experience so many historal landmarks in one day, you would be able to pass your high school constitution test after it. some of the things you'll see are paul reveres home, bunker hill-site of the first revolutionary war battle (have fun climbing up those 294 steps to the top!), the uss constitution ship, the old north church-where the lanterns were hung to signal "one if by land two if by sea," kings chapel and burying ground-resting place for people from the mayflower etc, granary burying ground-resting place for many signers of the declaration of independence, faneuil hall- AMAZING marketplace and restuarants including the famous cheers!, and a few more things as well. (boston is also in close proximity to salem-salem witch trials, nathaniel hawthornes house of the seven gables...and MANY more places!)

#3- FOOD! oh my word, with all the different neighborhoods there are so many insane places to eat (enjoy!).
-seafood: lobster rolls from kelleys or boston&maine fish company (which you can find in faneuil hall).
-pizza: pizzeria regina in the north end. it's a small place, but it's delicious. and if you're a tlc watcher, it won a food feud!
-pastry: who doesnt love pastry. also in the north end (little italy) you'll find mikes pastry and modern pastry just across the street and a jet from each other. (i recommend mikes...)
-oh, and they also have falafel in faneuil hall (you can find anything you want there...they will for certain have something to excite your taste buds).
-(sorry about the food...im a vegetarian...so those are my faves!)
-coffee: dunkin donuts are on every street in the boston area. aside from yummy donuts and bagels and breakfast sammys, they have the best coffee. go in and treat yourself to a medium regular iced coffee with skim milk and two splendas. (best...drink...EVER!)

#4-boston common: 50 acres (okay fine i had to google that part to give you the size) park that is actually the start of the freedom trail. it's america's oldest park! pretty trees, amazing scenery.

#5- the public garden: the prettiest place in the world! full of trees and flowers and, wait for it, swan boats! have you ever read make way for ducklings? it's my favorite book from my childhood. my nana gave it to be when i was like one. and i cant tell you how many times i've read it or have had it read to me growing up. and then, on one of those glorious trips to boston, i went on the swan boats that the book mentioned. it's was one of my more classic moments. the swan boats are on this beautiful little lagoon...i cant tell you how gorgeous this place it. (amanda, i advise you to spend as much time there as you can!) and be sure to bring some bread to tear apart for the ducks and swans.

#6-random others: broadway, the nutcracker ballet, chinatown, the bagel shop outside faneuil hall, duckboats (vehicles that can go straight from road to water from water to road, so cool), music, diversity, nook and cranny hotspots, and so many more amazing things to love about my favorite city!)

(aj factiod: my nana used to be a legal secretary at the john hancock building...the one that is all glass window panels with the seemingly black stripe down the side.)

Wednesday, March 9, 2011

Week 30, Day 3

So at this point, one of my main goals is finding an affordable place to work out and keep training for the 5K I want to run in May. Now, there's this place I found which looks like it's 2 minutes away from my apartment, and apparently it's $10 a month- no contract or anything. this place is called "Team Super Fitness." Seems too good to be true, right? I did a little bit of research and apparently there is a pretty new "Planet Fitness" in town which is taking business away from this place. So hopefully it's still open when I get there because $10 a month is pretty amazing!

I also Googled "Fun things to do in Boston," and I found
The Freedom Trail. The website says:

"The Freedom Trail is a 2.5 mile red-brick walking trail that leads you to 16 nationally significant historic sites, every one an authentic American treasure. Preserved and dedicated by the citizens of Boston in 1958, when the wrecking ball threatened, the Freedom Trail today is a unique collection of museums, churches, meeting houses, burying grounds, parks, a ship, and historic markers that tell the story of the American Revolution and beyond."

I am really excited to walk through this! It's free, which is always a good thing : ) More to come...

Monday, March 7, 2011

Week 30: "I think I'll go to Boston..." Week


Well hello, everyone! It's been a little while, huh? I am ok- it's just been a crazy week and a half, that's for sure. It's honestly amazing how quickly a person's life can change in that amount of time. I'll explain:

I'd like to start by saying that Date Week went well. It was awesome to catch up with friends I haven't seen for a bit. It was during Date Week that I was at my friend Kate's house. It's been awesome because I have been able to spend a good amount of time with my friend Kate, whom I love dearly but hadn't spent a ton of time with her before unemployment. We had watched a movie one night and then I stayed the night over there. The next day we got up and applied for jobs. A couple days earlier, I had chatted with my friend Prezza who passed on an email about a job in Quincy, MA. Out of all the jobs I've applied to (somewhere around 80 ish), I had only applied to a couple outside of Illinois and Indiana.

The day that I was at Kate's I applied to the position in Quincy for The Salvation Army. I honestly didn't think anything would come of it considering I'd gotten a handful of interviews- not a lot compared to the amount of jobs I'd applied to. About 4 hours later, I received a call from Doug, the person hiring for this job in Quincy. We talked for about 10 minutes, realized we had a lot of the same connections, talked about the position, and he told me that he'd be in touch. The next day, I was offered a job. He had talked to my references and more, prayed and felt God was saying I was the right person. I was in shock. For real.

The next week and a half was the most difficult as far as decision making. I cried (a lot), wasn't going to take the job because I'd miss my family and friends, but then maybe I should have the job because it would be a good experience, but I'd miss so much at home.....I wrestled with it, questioned a lot, keep asking God if this was what He wanted. Oh man, if you only knew the emotional roller coaster I went through! Maybe some of you do.

Then it was last Wednesday and I was at church working on the Beth Moore study on Esther that I've been doing. I'll be honest, I was two weeks behind but God was totally in that because that Wednesday I caught up on those two weeks. It just so happens that the two weeks topic's were: destiny and fear. How ironic? It was through that homework and the videos that went through it, that God spoke very very clearly. Since I've been unemployed, I've prayed that God would open and close doors. And that's exactly what He did. In fact, He flung a huge door open! I was scared to walk through it, but then I heard Beth Moore say in her video: "You may be one brave decision away from breaking free from an old story line and beginning a brand new chapter in your life." Honestly, it felt like those two lessons were written for me, for that exact moment. It was then that I knew I needed to walk through the door that led to Quincy.

Oh man, I am going to miss my friends and family. Actually, I'll only be gone about a year and a half because I'll be coming back for training in 2012 to be a pastor through The Salvation Army in Chicago. I'll also be back many times to visit for weddings, to see the Neth's baby who will be born in August, for Christmas....it's not for forever. I know that God is going to grow me and transform me while in Quincy. I will come back changed.

So this week, my plan is to do some research on Quincy and Boston since it's so close. I want to try and be as familiar with the place as I can without actually being there. I'd like to find a place to workout, the library, stores, the movie theater, etc. I need to start packing also! I'll be headed out around the 21st of March, so it's coming soon. I'll post my findings and if you happen to be familiar with Boston or the surrounding areas, tell me what your favorite place is, must-sees, etc.